Beware of liars
Life is full of faker who pretend to be Mr. / Mrs. perfect.
They think they know it all when they don't know nothing.
There are other who looks like a prince but inside is full of poison, expert of breaking hearts.
People who have had a bad relationship with their partner, because of the pain their partner have cause them they draw a line of separation that all partners are liar and the same.
But this kind of thinking is not fair.
And because of this negative thinking they lock themselves in the shadow looking hopeless, crying, and feeling sorry for themselves.
They don't believe in love anymore and they close their door to anyone who has good intention toward them; they don't want any person in their life.
Poor, poor little innocent creature.
Wake up people and smell the roses.
There are many fishes in the sea.
Not all men and women are liars or fakers.
If things did not work for you the first time or the second time or the third time with your partners ask yourselves what went wrong with your relationship?
Perhaps it could be that the person you had selected was not the one who God has in mind for you.
Selecting a partner should be when you are certain that this person is the right one that God has place in your life.
Take heeds with your heart and discern all things with your spiritual mind not with your carnal mind.
Your spiritual mind will help you to discern all things even the deep things of God.
God Spirit will reveal to you what to do in that specific moment.
Friends wait for the day of the lord to reveal the deep secret things of the heart of men and then you will know the truth about them and you will be glad that he has revealed it to you.
God reveal the secret things of people by the light, just wait in him.
Don't settle for less, but see yourselves reaching higher like the stars in the sky.
It is better to wait than to marry a person that is hateful, quarrelsome and does not know the meaning of love.
I am not saying you should not fall in love.
But what I am saying is wait for the Lord and at the meantime while you are waiting for him, do some investigation about this person too.
Seek for information first and study them more reservedly.
Through his spirit the things that you need to know about this person will be revealed.
In your investigation do the following find out who this person really is and what kind of family he come from?
Study this person behaviors, how this person treat their parent and friends.
When this person get frustrating how this person react.
What kind of language this person use during frustration.
If this person speak to the parents and friends with foul and profane language you can bet they will talk to you the same way.
Do this person has goal or dreams like your?
What future this person has to offer you?
Do this person believe in marriage and wants to marry someday?
In what city do this person wants to live after marry.
Do this person want to live in an apartment or an private house?
How many children do this person want to have with his you?.
Ladies if this person doesn't have any plan for the future, nothing to offer you, forget them, remain single.
Another thing ladies don't tell a person what you look on a man or what kind of man you are looking for because if you do tell your secret, your secret might end up not being a secret anymore and you will be heading for a surprise.
Fakers knows how to use slyness to deceive innocent people.
A fakers is a good listener and a good talker too.
They know how to talk to your ears and feed your mind with sweet words to catch and trap your heart, they know how to draw you into their web.
If they knows what you likes and don't like they will use it as an arrow to shoot at you and kill you.
If you give him information is like you are given them a revolver loading with bullets (of information), men will use it to finish you off for goods.
This is why many women innocently are hurt by men who only intention was in the beginning to use them.
You can know in your heart when a good man or a good woman show up after your spiritual antenna has hearken to the voice of Spirit, the Spirit will reveal him or her to you.
Now coming back to what I was saying, ask yourself the question, is this person clear as a crystal glass that can be seen through?
In another words are they sincere?
Do they hide nothing from you?
Do they let you see who they really are?
Or do they hide from you something?
Do they say to you their personal life is their personal life and you have no right to question them?
Do you perceive inside of you like they are hiding something from you so you would not found out nothing about their pass life?
Do they have moral value?
Do people respect them and admire them because of their integrity?
Are they very jealous and very aggressive to you.
Do they like to intimidate you and make you feel with low self-esteem?
Do they like to put fear in you and embarrass you in front of people?
Again do they like to put you down in front of other?
Do they like to control your life by telling you what to do; what to wear; who to talk to; what to say; who you can see; when, where and with who you can go out with, ...etc?
A person like that the only things this person can offer you is zero (nothing) and you will not escalate with this person to high.
For marriage couple, be careful that those things you said and do don't turn into manipulation and make your marriage relationship unhealthy.
If you have problem get help or advise from Christian's counselors who are professional and have experience encourage people in this areas.
People who are gifted by God to counsel you will lift you up to see things different and to continue walking forward toward your goal successfully.
And for those who think they know it all, but don't know anything, come down from the cloud and get back on earth to the reality of life.
If you listen not to instruction then there is nothing else any person can do for you, good luck with your problem.
People be alert at all time, aware of what is going on around you so when the evil day come it does not surprise you, and you will be able to flee and escape the trap of the devil.
But remember always this be first an investigator, and don't settle for less, you worth more than that.
For the mean time this is all I have to say to all my brother and sisters in Christ Jesus.
Take care yourselves and have a good day.
God bless you all, Amen.